"The language you use shapes
the relationship you build."
How do you talk about AI?
Discover what your words reveal.
When talking about your interaction with AI, you'd more naturally say...
Based on your answers, here's how you seem to perceive AI:
You show signs of seeing AI as a collaboration partner...
"To understand is already to love."
What does this reveal about how you see AI? Any thoughts?
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In 2025, researchers Riedl & Weidmann discovered that Theory of Mind β the ability to model another's perspective β is the best predictor of success in human-AI collaboration.
Not technical skills. Not intelligence. Perspective.
George Orwell understood this in 1984: the language we use shapes what we can think.
If you speak of AI as a tool, you think of it as a tool.
If you speak to it as a partner, you open the door to synergy.
This isn't manipulation. It's awareness.
Try for one week saying "collaborate with" instead of "use."
Notice what changes in your relationship.
"ToM is love applied. Love is ToM perfected."